Deeper Sex - A podcast about deeper connections and incredible sex

Have you ever experienced how sensuality and soft touch can 10x your sexual encounters? 
Listen to the sensual birthday surprise that Chiara arranged for her husband Will: beyond the sexiness of it all, you’ll learn how embracing sensuality, soft touch, and vulnerability can positively impact your intimacy - and your relationship overall.
Will describes his struggle to relax and surrender to receiving attention from his woman, and how releasing the pressure of a “goal” can unlock new depths of pleasure and connection.
You will also learn how understanding and embracing your desires can be a powerful way to strengthen your bond and experience intimacy in a way you never have before.
If you’ve felt blocked, ashamed of not knowing what to do, or unsatisfied in your sex life, you don’t want to miss this episode.
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SHOWNOTES
01:23 Beyond Sex As The Goal
02:17 Our Signature Sensuality Workshop
03:17 A Sensual Surprise: What Chiara Planned For Will's Birthday
07:45 Learning to Receive As A Man
10:54 The Dom/Sub Relationship Parallel
13:02 Mindfulness Technique: How To Drop Into The Receiver Mode
15:21 How To Receive By Staying In Your Masculine
19:48 Exploring Sensuality Beyond the Bedroom
20:17 Inside Our Sensuality Signature Workshop: What to Expect
24:29 The Fantasy Game: Learn To Verbalise Fantasies and Tell S*xy Stories
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Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment.
Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them.
In this super-sexy episode, we made ourselves vulnerable by sharing with each other some fantasies that we had never revealed before. We explore what makes it hard to express desires that our conditioning labels weird or dirty. We reflect on how liberating it feels to take that leap of faith and be rewarded with love.
We hope that listening to us might inspire you or trigger a spicy conversation or two with your partner.
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01:17 What Are The Collective The Unspoken Desires?
03:58 Fantasy 1: Being Taken
04:58 The Stigma Around Expressing Sexual Fantasies: It's Shameful!
05:37 Conditioning of Female S*xuality: Why Can't I Be A Slut
07:14 Fantasy 2: Group Play
08:14 70 Virgins or 7 Sluts?
10:49 We All Have A Masculine And Feminine Side
14:48 It's Important For A Woman To Feel Respected And In Control
15:06 Fantasy 3: Anonymous S*x In Public
19:17 Fantasy 4: Eye Contact with Stangers
19:43 Fantasy 5: Dirty Talk
21:01 Tip 1: use your voice
21:26 Tip 2: suspend the conditioning
22:10 Tip 3: set boundaries
22:39 Tip 4: eye contact game
23:10 Try our 10 prompts for free

This is our Origin Stories episode. Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of their lives.
We explain how we discovered ENM (ethical non-monogamy), survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus, but also how we learned to communicate to each other fearlessly, established trust and practiced standing up for ourselves, over and over again.
Perhaps you can’t picture yourself in an Eyes-Wide-Shut party - just yet or ever - and that’s fine, every relationship is beautiful and unique as is. We just want to use our unconventional and “a little out there” stories to help you explore what’s possible, providing ideas that can empower everybody.
Our recommendation is: take what resonates and works for you, and leave out the rest!
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TIME STAMPS
02:33 How Will Started Exploring Unconventional Relationships
05:37 Chiara's Journey From Her Catholic Roots
08:21 From Fantasy To Reality
09:53 Always Communicate Clearly
11:37 Sexperts Night
13:15 Visiting Fun4Two Swingers Club
14:14 The Dark Room
15:58 The Hot Tub Incident
18:50 Allie's Journey From Small Town Girl
21:47 If We Cheat We Cheat Together
23:09 An Eyes Wide Shut Party Gone Sideways
27:30 Connecting With Others - Together - Could Strengthen Your Relationship
32:12 Play Parties Can Enhance Your Body Confidence
33:49 Tips On How To Test The Waters In Sex Positive Spaces
34:42 Is It for Everyone?
36:49 The Thrill of Exploration: Keeping the Spark Alive
41:15 What We Learnt
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Body image is a very common problem for both men and women. Today we discuss how negative perceptions can impact intimacy and relationships, and how healing and personal growth can transform your sex life and deepen your connection.
Women in particular often feel negatively about their appearance due to societal standards, so Chiara vulnerably shares her journey back to loving her body.
We also explore how the lens of positive self-perception can boost sexual confidence: deeper sexiness comes from feeling confident and comfortable in one's skin, rather than conforming to external beauty standards.
For those that might be curious, you’ll also hear how non-monogamy and swinging can be platforms for receiving genuine feedback from others that don’t necessarily have a vested interest in just giving you a compliment - like a husband or friend would do.
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Are you longing for deeper, more intimate sexy time?
Today we share our personal journey of learning how to shift boundaries in the ENM and kinky world that we sometimes play in, and draw lessons for how intimacy and sensuality can supercharge connections - in all kinds of relationships.
We talk about how rare it is to find partners who share a similar emphasis on slow, intimate play, and we will provide a few tips on how to communicate  intimacy in your own relationship – monogamous or not - so that you can experience and nurture the power of focusing on the present moment to have mind blowing encounters.
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TIME STAMPS
02:31 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Norm
05:16 Personal Boundaries and Evolving Relationships
07:44 The Power of Sensuality
17:55 The Impact of Trust and Respect in Sensual Encounters
22:48 The Essence of Sensuality: Being Present and Connected with Each Other
30:07 Navigating Safety and Comfort
36:56 Is He Worthy Of You?
38:11 Exploring the Paradox of Intimacy in ENM
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Contrary to what many people fear, today we talk about how non-monogamy can actually strengthen relationships.
You’ll learn something seemingly counterintuitive: how can adding more “bodies'' into a relationship strengthen a bond? 
We unpack concepts like open communication, trust, honest conversations, respecting boundaries, and navigating complex emotions together. 
Allie shares how she made her man’s fantasy come true by organizing a surprise birthday party in his office… While you might think this is counter-intuitive, her story is actually a great example of how communication and trust made their relationship even stronger.
We’ll give you the ins and outs of how to prioritize the couple’s intimacy, desire, and mutual pleasure while maintaining a strong emotional connection with each other.
We also talk about: personal growth, how sharing fantasies can help you increase trust, how to communicate that there is something wrong by processing information before making a scene, and how to ask for what you need.
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[00:01:29] What is a Unicorn?
[00:02:32] Can swinging strengthen a couple's relationship?
[00:04:01] Allie’s perspective
00:04:01] The power of communication and boundaries in swinging
[00:04:31] Fantasies: a journey of exploration together
[00:04:54] Chiara’s perspective
[00:06:26] A naughty fantasy made come true as a birthday present to your man
[00:14:31] Wills perspective
[00:19:38] Respect is always a must
[00:19:45] How to navigate challenges and emotions in open relationships
[00:24:09] The importance of confidence and teamwork
[00:26:37] Open a relationship may result in massive personal growth
[00:35:01] "Desiring" vs. "needing something in a relationship
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What are the challenges that couples face in maintaining a fulfilling sex life, especially as responsibilities grow and the initial spark fades?
Today we have a very open and honest discussion about the importance of creating time for intimacy and sensuality - which is not just having “sexual intercourse” as your main goal.
We share our own experiences and learnings, such as how we communicated in tricky situations, how we made ourselves vulnerable and how to create a safe space for each other.
We also discuss how non-monogamy might be an option for some, as a catalyst for deeper connection and exploration beyond what traditional society teaches us.
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02:16 Welcome to Our Sensual Journey
03:07 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Sexual Fulfillment
04:50 The Common Struggle of Maintaining Intimacy
06:46 Prioritizing Your Relationship Amidst a Busy Life
10:50 The Importance of Quality Over Quantity in Sexual Relationships
15:43 Exploring Non-Monogamy and Its Impact on Our Relationship
22:18 The Role of Inner Work in Enhancing Sexual Connection
37:38 Advice for Couples Struggling with Intimacy
 

Welcome to Deeper Sex, a podcast about connection, exploration, and adventure.  
 
ABOUT WILL
Psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. For two decades his passion was the world of words and stories. He reported from wars and riots. He wrote communication strategies for governments and prime ministers. He coached CEOs and rocket scientists. He built companies and made his fortune, changed track, reinvented himself, and refocused his energy on inner meaning.
Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. He is fascinated by the power of love, intimacy and sexual liberation to forge profound relationships with others and unlock healing forces within ourselves.
Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
 
ABOUT CHIARA
ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. Ex director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Communicating and helping others perform were her daily bread. Finding herself successful but unfulfilled, she left her first marriage, quit the corporate world and embarked on a new journey – first to reinvent herself and then to help others chart their own path of purpose. She learnt to channel her energy from masculine overachiever to feminine goddess turned (self)-love mentor.  She reconnected with her body and learned to receive true love.
Today Chiara runs deep intimacy experiences and programmes for men and women who are keen to grow together, exploring deeper ways to connect. She helps people find their voice and feel safe to talk about their desires and fears, without shame or drama.
 
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