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Do you wish to more have (and better quality) sex with your partner?
Do you feel like you've lost the spark and don't know how to reignite the passion in your relationship?
Are you resenting your partner for any of the above?
Do you want to explore fantasies or other types of relationships but don't know how to talk about it?
Do you feel overwhelmed or not seen by your partner?
Friday Apr 05, 2024
Friday Apr 05, 2024
Contrary to what many people fear, today we talk about how non-monogamy can actually strengthen relationships.
You’ll learn something seemingly counterintuitive: how can adding more “bodies'' into a relationship strengthen a bond?
We unpack concepts like open communication, trust, honest conversations, respecting boundaries, and navigating complex emotions together.
Allie shares how she made her man’s fantasy come true by organizing a surprise birthday party in his office… While you might think this is counter-intuitive, her story is actually a great example of how communication and trust made their relationship even stronger.
We’ll give you the ins and outs of how to prioritize the couple’s intimacy, desire, and mutual pleasure while maintaining a strong emotional connection with each other.
We also talk about: personal growth, how sharing fantasies can help you increase trust, how to communicate that there is something wrong by processing information before making a scene, and how to ask for what you need.
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[00:01:29] What is a Unicorn?
[00:02:32] Can swinging strengthen a couple's relationship?
[00:04:01] Allie’s perspective
00:04:01] The power of communication and boundaries in swinging
[00:04:31] Fantasies: a journey of exploration together
[00:04:54] Chiara’s perspective
[00:06:26] A naughty fantasy made come true as a birthday present to your man
[00:14:31] Wills perspective
[00:19:38] Respect is always a must
[00:19:45] How to navigate challenges and emotions in open relationships
[00:24:09] The importance of confidence and teamwork
[00:26:37] Open a relationship may result in massive personal growth
[00:35:01] "Desiring" vs. "needing something in a relationship
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Friday Apr 05, 2024
Friday Apr 05, 2024
What are the challenges that couples face in maintaining a fulfilling sex life, especially as responsibilities grow and the initial spark fades?
Today we have a very open and honest discussion about the importance of creating time for intimacy and sensuality - which is not just having “sexual intercourse” as your main goal.
We share our own experiences and learnings, such as how we communicated in tricky situations, how we made ourselves vulnerable and how to create a safe space for each other.
We also discuss how non-monogamy might be an option for some, as a catalyst for deeper connection and exploration beyond what traditional society teaches us.
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02:16 Welcome to Our Sensual Journey
03:07 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Sexual Fulfillment
04:50 The Common Struggle of Maintaining Intimacy
06:46 Prioritizing Your Relationship Amidst a Busy Life
10:50 The Importance of Quality Over Quantity in Sexual Relationships
15:43 Exploring Non-Monogamy and Its Impact on Our Relationship
22:18 The Role of Inner Work in Enhancing Sexual Connection
37:38 Advice for Couples Struggling with Intimacy
39:25 What Actually Worked for Us
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
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Thursday Apr 04, 2024
Thursday Apr 04, 2024
Welcome to Deeper Sex, a podcast about connection, exploration, and adventure. We are Will and Chiara: real life partners, coaches, and your guides on love, sex, and personal transformation.
ABOUT WILL
Psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. For two decades his passion was the world of words and stories. He reported from wars and riots. He wrote communication strategies for governments and prime ministers. He coached CEOs and rocket scientists. He built companies and made his fortune, changed track, reinvented himself, and refocused his energy on inner meaning.
Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. He is fascinated by the power of love, intimacy and sexual liberation to forge profound relationships with others and unlock healing forces within ourselves.
Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
ABOUT CHIARA
ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. Ex director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Communicating and helping others perform were her daily bread. Finding herself successful but unfulfilled, she left her first marriage, quit the corporate world and embarked on a new journey – first to reinvent herself and then to help others chart their own path of purpose. She learnt to channel her energy from masculine overachiever to feminine goddess turned (self)-love mentor. She reconnected with her body and learned to receive true love.
Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and become truly "comfortable" in themselves rather than just "confident". She helps people make brave and empowering life decisions, stoke the fire in romantic relationships and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality and sex.
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With decades of experience in psychology, business coaching, emotional healing and spiritual practices, our approach blends pragmatic science with real-world first-hand experience from personal healing journeys: disconnect, depression, anxiety, divorces, childhood trauma, abuse, and years of ineffective talk-therapy.
Our mission is to help passionate, growth-minded humans get past their fears, break away from a life of repeating patterns, and lay the foundations for deep, authentic connections, so you can increase trust in intimacy, and transform your romantic relationship because the best sex of your life is yet to come.